Hello,
2004 West Coast Party
April 19-22, 2004
Palm Springs, CA
Hi Mr. Barrett,
I'm sorry that it's been such a long time since I've sent you an e-mail to say
hello and hope that all is going well with you and your family. I am so
sorry to hear about Mr. Frice's wife passing away. (although I am glad to hear
that they had so many years together and, unlike so many deaths, they were able
to say goodbye to each other. I know that point seems very trivial under
the circumstances, but there are so many things that are left unsaid when
someone close to you dies. Although I was only 8 yrs old when my
grandfather, Bobby Liddell- Proud member of the 517th F. Company, passed away, I
wish that I would have been old enough to realize what he had given to his
country and that he represented the Liddell family with pride an honor by
fighting in "the Bulge" with such bravery. I just wish that I would have
been able to say "Thank you", as I've always expressed to all of you who are
still with us. Also, my other grandfather who served aboard the USS Raleigh
(Destroyer that was hit pretty bad but stayed afloat) during the attack on Pearl
Harbor passed away when I was 17 yrs. old. Although he knew how much
I loved him, (he was my all time greatest "Fishing Buddy" who I spent MANY hours
with him on the water at his retirement home on Weiss Lake in North Alabama
running his trotlines, fishing for cats, crappie, largemouth (bass), and stripes
(bass). I spent most of my summers and every "spring break" fishing with
him. He wasn't just my grandfather but, more... he was my close
friend. This began to take back-seat to girls, partying with my
friends, deer hunting, and all of the other "new experiences" that
come with the freedom of being a teenager. The last time that I spoke to
him, which was while I was rushing to pack my truck for a 3-day bass fishing
trip with my friends to Miller's Ferry in South Alabama. He was leaving
the following day for Leesburg, Florida (w/ Nanee) to camp with their "camping
club". He was talking with me on my driveway and he mentioned that
he would love for me to come up to the lake when they return from FL and do some
fishing with him. I told him that I would but I could see it in his eyes
that he was coming to grips with the fact that I was a teenager who no longer
had the time to fish with his grandfather, or at least like we used to.
Although the hurt in his eyes made me feel really bad, I remember thinking that
I would "fix it when he got home by going up there for a few days and doing some
fishing". He died 4 days later in Leesburg, FL of a massive heart attack
while he was on top of their motor home closing a vent. Although I am
truly thankful to God that, unlike my other grandfather, we DID have some
really GREAT memories together. I do very little fishing now, although it
was my life back then, because my "fishing buddy" is no longer here to fish with
me. Fishing is simply not the same without him.. Still, that one
day, the hurt in his eyes seems to outweigh all of the good memories. Although
I KNOW FOR A FACT that he didn't blame me because he was a teenager once and he
made a comment one day while we were fishing that, "that day would come when I
would become a teenager", although i assured him that it wouldn't. I still
could see that it didn't make it any easier on him. There were no other
grandsons who were DEDICATED to fishing like he was. Actually, he always
said that I "wore him out when I came for a visit" because I never wanted to
reel in the lines. :-) Anyway, I long for just one more fishing trip with
him, or, at leaste the opportunity to tell him how much those days on the lake
meant to me.
Although Mr. Frice probably doesn't
see it now, I'm sure that having the opportunity to tell Mrs. Frice how much he
loved her and leaving no stones unturned..
Mr. Frice and his family will certainly be in my prayers and he's already on the
"prayer list" at my church.
Your friend,
Chris Liddell
Your adopted
"517th Grandson"
PS: Please tell Bob that I said
hello and ask him to drop me an e-mail sometime if he gets a chance. (and same
for you Mr.B) :-)
liddelldesigns@cs.com
PSS: I almost forgot. GREAT NEWS!!!!
(This shows how nature works sometimes.) Although the loss of Mrs.Frice
was a very sad situation and I'm not trying to make it seem any less than
that, my wife and I just found out that we have been "bumped up" from,
December to November then, from November to October and now from October to
September, to leave for China and pick up our little baby girl that we're
adopting!!!! Although the 517th members are loosing one of their loved
ones, another member of the 517th (Bobby M. Liddell) although he will only be
looking down from heaven, a "517th member's grandson is adding a new "member of
the family". Although the Sept. travel date isn't set in stone, (assuming that
the Chinese Dept. of International Adoption simply continues to send out the
files on time) the chances of the receipt of our file, which INCLUDES a picture
of our baby girl and her birth info. in August and traveling in Sept. is 99.5%
in our favor. You can count on receiving more pictures than you can stand,
after our 15-20 day trip to China so you may want to delete free up about 75% of
the memory space in your computer. :-) Tammy (my wife) and I have been
trying to have a child for aprox. 5 or 6 yrs. (1-2 years of "natural" attempt, 2
years at "Fertility Clinic #1" , 2+ years at "Fertility Clinic #2", and about 11
months of red tape, background checks, psychiatric evaluations, FBI Searches,
Finger Printing, Letters of Recommendations from almost everyone that we
know, IRS Tax Returns from the past 5 years, and, since I'm a small
business owner, 5 yrs. of financial statements w/ a notarized letter from my
business accountant, 5 years of business licenses and bank statements, etc.
etc. etc. involved in an international adoptions. NOT TO MENTION THE
$$$$$!!! We figured it up a few days ago, and we spent an average of
$24,000 per year (x 4 and 1/2 yrs.) (and, fert. clinics are covered
by NONE of even the best med. insur. cos) and, the adoption, including travel,
will end up costing a total of + or - $34,000. NOW THAT's A HELLUVA' LOT OF
CAPS, T-SHIRTS, PROMOTIONAL PRODUCTS and LOGO DESIGN? FREELANCE GRAPHIC
ART!!!) :-) So far, we have been very blessed because it seems like
God has came through for us EVERY SINGLE TIME that a big payment is due on the
adoption or when we were going through infertility, by giving me an unexpected
order of jackets (which are very "big profit" items) or some kind of order that
leaves us with (sometimes almost to the penny) the money left over after the
bills, to pay our payment on time. That tells me that God wants us to be
parents ALMOST as bad as we do... :- ) This is a happy ending of a dream
that Tammy and I have been working towards for years. I can't express how
EXCITED we are!!! Just thought you might like to get an update.
Bill Boyle
This was forwarded to us by Bill Boyle.
"Under God" key phrase for court this Wednesday.-Ben